Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Life Lesson Learned

I am not one to be cynical in a time of such great promise, but this is truly sad. I recently received an insulting comment on one of my YouTube videos and went through the usual routine of blocking the sender and removing it from the comments listing. Before deleting it, I felt the need to capture it with my Nokia E71 and share just how ignorant and crass people can be when they are online and out of sight! After receiving a number of comments like this I have admittedly become numb to them and thought it best to just ignore them, until now.

There is much hurt and anger that can come from seeing something like this in my personal inbox, but nothing can be helped if I recklessly give in to those feelings. In a situation like this it is better to recognize that there is always a presence of negativity to balance out the positivity, much like an eternal equilibrium of some sort. There can be no dawn without the dark, no new growth without the ashes, no healing without the wound.

The only thing I can do at this point is recognize that the poster of such a comment has no idea of who I am as as individual, thus there are no specific grounds for it. It is also better to realize that to live life without any sort of stress or trouble is indeed a far-fetched dream that will never have the opportunity of coming true. With this in mind I can only move on with life with the purpose of looking forward. Another life lesson learned.

TRENT
Sent from my MacBook Pro

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Hey Trent,

i would have just deleted that one time. But dont worry those people either just have low self estime or a small thing in there pans so they need something to fell better. Me as an German Grenadian (where my dad is white and my mom is black) Born and grew up in Munich Germany had this since i was in kindergarden we learn to ignore those things or show them to respect us. But i think the better way is to just ignore and go for your A's and your Masters and Phd lol.
And right now your contry went a big step by electing one of ours this showes a lot and we have to pray for Obama in this very difficult times.
Trent i am proud of you for what you are doing full time job school like i was saykng in a email before you aspired me i am also doing a bachelor now but in Theology in saturday classes 4 years.

Regards,

Kevin

abz said...

Hey trent
I as a muslim have gone thru a lot of pain since 9/11 and i hear you when you say it is hurtful to read such a comment when its someone typing it to you and who doesn't even know you as a person.

don't take it personally, people need to know what a great man you are deep down, i know i love you for your tech toys (JEALOUS F&*** YEAH) but mad at you or anything NO WAY!!

Don't worry about it bud

Abz

TRENT said...

Thanks so much to both of you guys for such great support! I really appreciate it.